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Is There Such Thing As A ‘Mid Youth Crisis’? by Nichole Jackson

Firstly I would like to reassure you that where you are now, many of us have been in that same spot before. Initially while growing up, I couldn’t wait for the day that I could be in control of my own life and free to live exactly as I pleased. Now that I’ve reached that stage in my life the words “With great power, comes great responsibility”, famously uttered by Ben Parker (Spiderman’s Uncle) at his untimely demise resound in my head.

When I finally became an adult, I consequently was granted the responsibility of steering my future in whatever direction I like and the pressure of that alone nearly crippled me at the tender age of twenty-one. Everywhere I looked someone was doing better than me, self made billionaires were getting younger and younger each year and when I reached the age twenty-one I felt like I hadn’t done anything with my life although it had only just begun. It might sound like eternal bliss but once presented with the option of making your own decisions, you’ll wish that your parents or someone else would take the reins again. I began to think that I was lazy compared to those go getters who sleep for fours every forty-eight hours. I mean those hardcore hustlers who grind throughout the night and continue into the day. I only ended up burning out by lighting both ends of the candle. Working a full-time job, part-time job and studying full time. If only I knew then what I know now, how to exercise some patience and know that my day will someday come.

I’ll be the first to admit that I didn’t make the smoothest transition into adulthood so that’s why I’m writing this in hopes that I can pass on what I’ve learnt along the way. Just remember that life is about taking risks and if you make a mistake along the way, chalk it up as a lesson learnt. No one owes you anything in this life so it’s up to you to carve your mark in the tree of life. Opportunity doesn’t knock often so when it does make sure you have bags packed and are ready to roll. Always maintain a hunger for knowledge, be thirsty for success, full on love and you will go places. Remember you are not defined by how many people you are friends with but more on the nature of the people around you. Cease investing time in those that don’t aim in a similar direction to you. Keeping hanger on types around may be useful at times, but isn’t majorly beneficial. By focusing on your own dreams, you are bound to come across others like you who will be easier to keep ‘due’ to your common visions.

It’s natural for us to second-guess ourselves…but if we take stock, we’re already doing better than most in a similar situation. The aim is to beat the rest!

Think about it, how many of your pretty friends are still single? There is a misconception that pretty girls have it all. Sure prettiness could get you some things on a silver platter but it can deny you the most relevant things in life, e.g. a partner. Don’t get me wrong, I’m not saying that all pretty girls are single. Some of them are pretty much taken; they are the exception. I call them, lucky.

When was the last time you dated? Take a closer look at this; you have been on dates but they are just not working out or you have not been on a date for so long you can hardly recall how long. You have not dated anyone in awhile is not equivalent to “no lad asked you out”. You have been getting tons and tons of propositions but they are just not right. Sure sometimes you have to give it a go, be open-minded and try your luck but you are now tired of settling for second best.

What is second best? For me, second best is when you decide to date someone just for the heck of it. Maybe your friends think your “pickie” or you just want a boyfriend and you decide to give it a go. These are not good enough reasons for me to date anyone. Sure, the guy fits an ideal man specification; he’s tall, cute, ambitious, and youthful, whatever fits your spec; yet he just not right. You feel nothing. You went on first date, you felt nothing. After three months of dating, you still feel nothing. I don’t beat about the bush. If I don’t feel a thing after few conversations, I will never feel “a thing”.

Sometimes, you don’t get the feeling at all, you don’t expect it yet it creeps up on you. So you like him now, you look for signs that he feels the same way. You find out that he likes you. Then you worry about what he likes about you and what he wants from you. Right, physical attraction comes first but you don’t want a man that is only physically attracted to you. You want to know if there are other things that he likes about you. You are tired of being a trophy or sexual toy? Or you never want to be a trophy? So you need to know. You ponder over it. You ask him straight up and realised he thinks you are fit and pretty. How do you feel?

Disappointed, thrown, torn and defeated. Yet again, another one refused to see beyond the beauty. To rub insult upon injury, some guys believe you have at least 4 boyfriends just because you are pretty. Some guys automatically think you are taken. You are attracting weirdoes. The guys you really like are not completely into you and you feel like you are the one always trying to mend or bridge your relationships. Something is always an obstacle between you and him. You got tired of it all and went back to your little cocoon, the single life.

Yet, the world won’t let you be. You get asked all the time why are you single and you have no proper answer. Then you realised, you been waiting for a lifetime and you are still waiting. Like a queue that is never ending, it still not your turn. Everywhere you turn, you see couples and you look away. You just don’t want to think about it. Your mother is pestering you about your lack of boyfriend and you just suppress all your emotions. Your extended family are constantly reminding you of marriage and babies. Your friends are always asked if there is a bloke in your life. Your friends think you need deliverance because you are too pretty to be single. So you ask yourself, what do I have? I’m pretty, educated, charming, friendly, etc. So, what do I lack? Why am I still single?

Why do some pretty girls have it tough in love stakes? It is because they refuse to settle for what they don’t want. Although, they took into consideration everything their mother says but they don’t let it influence them. Patience is a virtue. Good things come to girls who wait.

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                    Good Catch Doesn’t Equal Financial Match

In the world we live in money makes the world go around and we can’t ignore the fact that it’s a common denominator in all of our lives. Before embarking into a new relationship, I like to evaluate the fiscal qualities of the person I’m linking up with. Think about it, you may be compatible in numerous areas but when it comes down to the weight of your wallets that’s where you may clash. Many a times I physically cringe when I see a nicely dressed (swagged out) riding the bus, knowing full well that he could invest in a car with five outfits out of his wardrobe. Get your priorities in order.

My advice, (and this applies to male and female readers) is to assess your significant others money management skills. Sometimes it’s not correct to judge someone by their financial status when you initially meet them but rather you should observe how they manage their income. In addition, monitoring their attitude towards money will give you a pretty good indication of whether it fits in line with you financially. I mean, if they can’t manage a little bit imagine how they would be if they had copious amounts of money. It’d be like a music video for B.M.F. Just throwing money away and making it rain.

Historically, having a joint account was the norm but in this economic climate we find this generation of couples opting to have separate accounts and split the household bills down the middle. To be honest I agree, I was told that what’s mine stays mine and what’s his is to be shared. For women, with the ushering in of equal rights, financial freedom and independence has been something we covet and are reluctant to relinquish. Men, however tend to cling to the tradition of the provider and had most of the financial responsibilities, reluctant to spend his woman’s money. With the gender pay gap in the UK and various countries across the globe this may make sense. However with this gap swiftly closing, the amount of women earning more money than men will rise. That’s when the issue of a man’s ego plays a big part in the relationship. How will he feel when he is earning less money than you? Will he feel like he no longer has the authority to make decisions on how money is spent?

 Undoubtedly, money will be the biggest issue you will face in your relationship, arguments will spring up over whether to buy Heinz or store brand baked beans to how much your girlfriend/wife spends on clothes. Personally, I believe in separate and joint assets when in a relationship but this also depends on the level of the relationship. It depends on whether you are co-habiting or married. I don’t think a couple has to worry about joint finances until they reach either of these stages. I may be wrong but my understanding is that people date and pursue relationships with the ultimate result intending to be co-habitation or marriage therefore it’s is imperative that you choose someone whose fiscal qualities match and mirrors yours. I don’t mess around with my money and I’m sure you don’t either, so why would you let someone else step in an make a mockery of the reward you received for busting your behind every day. So next time you see someone that you think might be a good catch, makes sure he/she is a financial match.

By: Nichole Jackson